Letting Go of Control

In this episode of "Motherhood Unveiled," host Ashley welcomes Adrianne Largo, a marketing executive with over 25 years of experience. Adrianne shares her journey through motherhood, discussing her miscarriage, the challenges of balancing a driven career with parenting, and the lessons she's learned about control and acceptance. The conversation covers the emotional impact of her miscarriage, the complexities of postpartum care influenced by her Chinese heritage, and the pressures of cultural expectations. Adrianne's candid reflections highlight the importance of patience, self-acceptance, and the unique, often challenging, experiences that come with motherhood.

Meet Adrianne

Adrianne is the mother to a 9 year old son, a wife of 10 years, a restaurant marketer, brand leader and aspiring executive coach who, after over 25 years in the restaurant business, is currently on the slow transition to becoming an executive coach to help others find career flow.  Outside of work and parenting, Adrianne loves sleeping, movies and hanging out with friends.

Introduction to Motherhood Unveiled (00:00:04)  

Meet Adrianne Largo (00:02:00)  

The Dichotomy of Control (00:03:45)  

The Journey of Acceptance (00:05:03)  

Miscarriage Experience (00:05:56)  

Camping During Miscarriage (00:07:12)  

Navigating Medical Challenges (00:08:51)  

Emotional Impact of Loss (00:09:39)  

Second Pregnancy and Control Issues (00:11:01)  

Induced Labor Experience (00:12:07)  

C-Section and Loss of Control (00:14:00)  

Breastfeeding Struggles (00:15:01)  

Cultural Practices in Postpartum Care (00:15:55)  

Confined to Home (00:20:11)  

The Purpose Behind Confinement (00:22:22)  

Postpartum Care Choices (00:22:37)  

Control in Motherhood (00:23:09)  

First Words to Son (00:23:28)  

Love and Acceptance (00:25:09)  

Toxic Messaging in Motherhood (00:27:05)  

Different Expressions of Love (00:29:19)  

Reality of Parenting (00:30:21)  

Control and Expectations (00:31:05)  

Lessons from Children (00:32:26)  

Judgment and Guilt (00:34:52)  

Painful Pregnancy Experience (00:35:43)  

Letting Go of Control (00:38:14)  

Coaching and Support (00:39:16)  

Navigating Child's Struggles (00:40:32)  

Worrying About the Future (00:44:17)  

Grounding Techniques (00:45:31)  

Personal Growth Through Motherhood (00:46:40)  

Positive Intelligence and Mindset (00:47:08)  

Motherhood as a Catalyst for Change (00:48:00)  

Children's Insight and Wisdom (00:49:48)  

Finding Common Interests (00:52:18)  

The Stages of Motherhood (00:53:25)  

Trusting the Process (00:55:21)  

Debunking Motherhood Myths (00:57:36)  

Emotional Complexity of Motherhood (01:00:28)  

Final Thoughts on Motherhood (01:01:48)  

Resources

• Positive Intelligence course
• Momwell: Therapists trained in supporting mothers
• The WOMB : Holistic support services for mothers

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Cover Art: Abigail Murphy Photography