40. DR. GARY LEWANDOWSKI on How Often Couples Should Really be Having Sex, Love at First Sight & Other Myths Sabotaging your Love Life

Welcome back! This week we have Dr. Gary Lewandowski with us and we are chatting all about his eye-opening new book, Stronger than you Think: The 10 Blind Spots That Undermine Your Relationship...and How to See Past Them. Gary shares the story of how he decided to pursue a career in psychology and eventually to focus on love and relationships. We hear his thoughts on classic dating rules and some of the biggest misconceptions people have about dating and relationships.

A few topics we cover:

• How soon & how often couples should be having sex
  
  


• Who says I love you first
  
  


• Love at first sight
  
  


• Soulmates
  
  


• Infidelity
  
  

Stronger Than You Think will be on shelves tomorrow, 2/9 and you can pre-order it now on Amazon.

What we're trying this week:

Carleigh's Pick: Homemade chai lattte (with Joolies Dates syrup) - Recipe on our Instagram

Mia's Pick: BKE Kombucha

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