#163 | From Shame to Sovereignty: How LGBTQ People Are Redefining Faith on Their Own Terms

Have you ever questioned your faith — or your worth — because of what you were taught about being LGBTQ+?

In this transformative episode, Heather Hester is joined by therapist and theologian Ann Russo to unpack the rarely discussed but deeply felt wounds of religious trauma, especially among LGBTQ+ individuals. From purity culture and existential fear to parental shame and spiritual disconnection, they explore how healing can begin — without abandoning your faith, identity, or dignity.

• Learn how to recognize the signs of religious trauma and how they may still be showing up in your life
• Understand why you don’t have to choose between faith and identity — and how to redefine both on your terms
• Discover real strategies for healing from shame, control, and spiritual disconnection, no matter your background

Press play to begin healing the painful intersections of religion, identity, and belonging — and learn how to reclaim your wholeness with love, curiosity, and hope.

Connect with Ann:

annrusso.org

amrtherapy.com

Ann Russo, LCSW, MA (Theology), is a licensed clinical social worker, sex-positive therapist, and the founder of AMR Therapy & Support Services. With over 20 years of experience, she specializes in healing religious trauma, supporting LGBTQ+ individuals, and providing affirming care for those in non-traditional relationships. Ann offers training, consulting, and therapy services that center on inclusivity, trauma-informed practices, and spiritual healing. She is also the creator of the Empowering Pathways Continuing Education Program, designed to equip mental health professionals with tools to support marginalized communities.

In addition to her clinical work, Ann is a published author and speaker, contributing to podcasts and media events that explore themes of sexuality, identity, and healing. Her work is rooted in a commitment to social justice and the transformation of mental health and wellness spaces.

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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen explores connection, courage, and community for every concerned parent, mom, or ally navigating fear, grief, and bigotry with hope, resilience, and empathy. Through open-minded education, inclusive parenting guidance, and advocacy for mental health, safety, and a human first approach, we support LGBTQ youth and stand for human rights and social justice. More Human. More Kind. empowers listeners to shift their mindset, embrace activism and allyship, and lead with kindness, healing, and purpose.