#144 | Why Accountability Is the Foundation of Trust — In Families, Leadership & Democracy (lgbtq, allies)

Have we forgotten how to hold people, especially those in power, accountable? And what does that mean for our relationships, communities, and democracy?

In this emotionally charged episode, Heather reflects on the deep importance of personal and collective accountability, not only in family life and close relationships, but also in our current political moment. With raw honesty, she shares her own journey from fear of conflict to courageous truth-telling, and challenges us to examine why accountability is the foundation of trust, growth, and integrity.

• Understand why emotional maturity and accountability go hand in hand
• Learn how to model accountability for your children in a way that builds trust and love
• Explore why lack of consequences for harmful public behavior is a threat to collective wellbeing and how we can respond

Listen now for a heartfelt reflection on why holding yourself, and others, accountable may be one of the most radical acts of love and leadership you can take today.

Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!

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At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ+ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and foster courageous, compassionate connection.

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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen explores connection, courage, and community for every concerned parent, mom, or ally navigating fear, grief, and bigotry with hope, resilience, and empathy. Through open-minded education, inclusive parenting guidance, and advocacy for mental health, safety, and a human first approach, we support LGBTQ youth and stand for human rights and social justice. More Human. More Kind. empowers listeners to shift their mindset, embrace activism and allyship, and lead with kindness, healing, and purpose.