#143 | Nationalism Is NOT Patriotism! The Time To Act is NOW - The Courage LGBTQ Allies Need to Push Back

Can a TV show and a state leader both be sounding the same alarm—and what does it say about where we’re headed?

In this emotionally stirring episode, Heather reads excerpts from two eerily similar speeches—one from Governor JB Pritzker’s real-life State of the State address, and one from the political drama Madam Secretary. (alarmingly, the two are divided by about a decade!) Both address the rising tide of authoritarianism, the scapegoating of marginalized groups, and the urgent need for moral clarity and action. She also dives into how the ongoing attack on DEI programs isn’t just about race or gender—it’s about power, fear, and erasing voices that threaten the status quo.

• Hear two unforgettable speeches that shine a light on the dangers of nationalism and silence
• Understand how recent executive orders are gutting the arts, education, and DEI programs in hidden ways
• Learn actionable ways to stay grounded and make a meaningful impact even when the world feels overwhelming

Listen now to discover how your voice, your vote, and your values can be the firebreak to a rising storm and why your courage matters more than ever.

Links referenced in this episode:

• national LGBTQ task force
• just security

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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen explores connection, courage, and community for every concerned parent, mom, or ally navigating fear, grief, and bigotry with hope, resilience, and empathy. Through open-minded education, inclusive parenting guidance, and advocacy for mental health, safety, and a human first approach, we support LGBTQ youth and stand for human rights and social justice. More Human. More Kind. empowers listeners to shift their mindset, embrace activism and allyship, and lead with kindness, healing, and purpose.