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We are talking about men – Man up

Author
Deirdre Maguire
Published
Wed 31 Jul 2024
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We are talking about men

 Confidence and assertiveness 

Challenges Men Face:

We all know society can be tough on men, expecting them to always be strong and self-reliant. 

Makes  it hard to show vulnerability or ask for help. Because of 

·    fear of rejection

·      failure 

·    balance between  assertive and  aggressive can be tricky.

 

Why Confidence and Assertiveness Matter:

1.    When you're confident, you believe in yourself and your abilities. 

2.    you make decisions without second-guessing .

3.    When you’re  Assertive  you can  expressyour needs and wants in a respectful way.

4.     Together,  you navigate life at home, at work, or in social situations.

 

Action Steps:

1.    Get to know yourself 

Focus on your strengths. 

Write them down. 

Or ask someone you trust. 

2.    Practice good self-talk

  "I can do this."  

Use "I" statements.

 Not "You never listen," 

"I feel unheard when my suggestions are ignored."

3.    Pay attention to your body language. Maintain eye contact, use a calm tone, and stand tall.

4.    !!!Role-play assertive scenarios with a friend or coach. This can help you practice and feel more comfortable.

 

 

In closing

It doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a journey!

 Remember, it’s not about being perfect. It’s about being true to yourself and standing up for what you need in a respectful way.

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