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"Become an Emotional Lighthouse: Guiding Your Child Through Big Feelings"

Author
Quiet. Please
Published
Sun 01 Dec 2024
Episode Link
https://www.spreaker.com/episode/become-an-emotional-lighthouse-guiding-your-child-through-big-feelings--63091510

Here's the script for "Mindful Parenting: Daily Tips for Raising Calm Kids":

[Warm, inviting tone]

Hey there, wonderful parents. Welcome to today's practice. I'm so glad you've carved out this moment for yourself – because let's be honest, parenting in 2024 can feel like navigating a storm while balancing on a tightrope. [PAUSE]

Take a deep breath with me right now. Feel your feet connected to the ground, your body supported wherever you're sitting. This is your time – a precious pause in the beautiful chaos of family life. [PAUSE]

Today, I want to share a practice I call the "Emotional Lighthouse" technique. Just like a lighthouse guides ships through turbulent waters, you can become a calm, steady beacon for your children, especially when emotions run high.

Close your eyes if that feels comfortable. Imagine your breath as a gentle tide, moving slowly in and out. [DEEP BREATH] Each inhale brings a sense of spaciousness, each exhale releases tension. [PAUSE]

Now, picture yourself as a lighthouse. Strong. Steady. Unmoved by the waves crashing around you. When your child is experiencing big emotions – maybe a tantrum, frustration, or overwhelming excitement – you don't get swept away. You remain grounded. [PAUSE]

Visualize a warm, soft light emanating from your center. This light represents your calm, your inner peace. It doesn't fight the waves – it simply exists, providing guidance and safety. When your child approaches with intense feelings, you can breathe and silently say to yourself: "I am the lighthouse. I am steady. I am here." [PAUSE]

This isn't about being perfect. It's about being present. About creating a space of emotional safety where your children can learn to navigate their own inner storms.

As you return to this moment, take one more deep breath. How can you carry this lighthouse energy with you today? Maybe it's a gentle touch on your child's shoulder, a calm voice, or simply a moment of patient listening. [PAUSE]

You're doing incredible work. Parenting is the most important job in the world, and you're showing up, moment by moment, with love and intention.

Breathe. Trust yourself. You've got this.

[Soft, closing tone]

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