Do you ever wonder "why is this happening TO me?" When things do not go the way we want it is natural to feel like things are stacking up against us. If we are not careful we will let those things stack up against and tear us down. But one subtle word change can make all the difference in the world.
What if, instead of happening "to" you, things were happening "for" you? There's an old scripture that says all things happen "for" our good. If we believe that then all of the difficulties that weigh us down, are actually for our benefit not for our destruction.