Unlocking Lasting Passion: Dr. Diane Mueller on Reigniting Desire in Long-Term Relationships

In this enlightening episode of Mind Over Matter, we sit down with Dr. Diane Mueller—board-certified sexologist, dual doctorate naturopath, and founder of MyLibido.com. Together, we unravel the science behind fading passion in long-term relationships and how couples can flip the script. Dr. Diane explains how dopamine, novelty, and intentionality fuel desire, offering actionable strategies to keep intimacy vibrant. From understanding the “Libido Code” to embracing mindful presence and playful curiosity, she empowers couples to rekindle connection and pleasure—both in and outside the bedroom.

About Dr. Diane Mueller:

Dr. Diane Mueller is a board-certified sexologist, dual doctorate naturopath, and the powerhouse behind MyLibido.com and The Libido Lounge Podcast. She specializes in helping couples reignite passion, blending science, spirituality, and sensuality. Through her innovative programs like the Hot & Modern Monogamy Club and tools like the Libido Quiz and Libido Code, she supports couples in decoding their unique desires and fostering deeper intimacy.

Key Takeaways:

• Passion fades over time due to dopamine depletion and habitual routines—but it can be reignited.

  
  



• Novelty, anticipation, and creating new experiences boost dopamine and spark desire.

  
  



• Knowing your own body and communication style is crucial for satisfying intimacy.

  
  



• Emotional connection and daily mindful practices—like savoring a hug or sharing breathwork—build erotic tension outside the bedroom.

  
  



• Dr. Diane’s free tools (LibidoQuiz.com & LibidoCode.com) help uncover physical, emotional, and relational factors that may affect your libido.

  
  

Connect with Dr. Diane Mueller:

• Website: MyLibido.com

  
  



• Take the Libido Quiz: LibidoQuiz.com

  
  



• Discover your Libido Code: LibidoCode.com

  
  



• Listen to The Libido Lounge Podcast on your favorite platform.

  
  

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