Mercedes and The Chap (M.A.T.Ch.)

Sorting out where to focus on improving. Highlighting our gifts and building our confidence. Bringing self-mastery to relationships so we can recognize compatibility when it presents itself.

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We discuss the nuts and bolts around how to get your finances in order to create a stable foundation that will enhance your life and confidence. We also address some controversial points about what w…

All about how to stir sexual desire and open your partner so you can be fully accepted. We dive into the ways to communicate with the opposite sex that’ll get you closer to sexual intimacy. Including…

To be clear, “safe” doesn’t mean boring or lacking sexiness, adventure, or edge… rather, it’s the thing about a man that makes a him dangerous AND grounded. In this episode we dance with the topic of…

In this episode we break down the types of Love Languages that people best give and receive love through. We take the shame out of wanting credit for the love and gifts you give in relationship, givi…

What’s the difference between being kind and being a doormat? How much is too much flexibility in relationship? This one if for the People Pleasers attempting to meet the needs of others before asses…

It’s a big question and we’ve got some big suggestions of how to answer it for yourself! In this episode we explore purpose from the surface level all the way into the existential depths of BEING. Jo…

In this episodes we’re talking about women wearing the pants in a relationship, and if it spells disaster or not. We explore some of the origin stories that create the hyper-independent woman persona…

Where does fear originate from?
Where does anger originate from?
Where does shame originate from?

So many of us are struggling with wounds set so deeply into our subconscious that we don’t get a chan…

In this episode we discuss the seven deadly sins in a relationship, that keep humans from connecting with each other in an expansive and synergistic way. Listen in to explore these more fully, but he…

We don’t need the extravagant things in order to consider ourselves successful. Instead, what if we made our focus understanding our privileges: the things we take for granted about ourselves and our…

In todays dating world theres no clearer way to detect someone not being a match to you than by being ghosted by them... Unfortunately it still hurts. In this episode we discuss why people ghost and …

In this episode we discuss the needs that we’ve struggled with most in relationship, and how to go about assessing what you need so that you can bravely ask for it from a partner AFTER meeting what y…

Your depth is only as deep as your ability to commit. This sentiment becomes especially apparent in those who view commitment as an act against their freedom.

Be it with romantic relationships, frien…

In this episode Mercedes explores her religious upbringing, including her first existential crisis and the resulting initial whisperings of her life’s calling. An invitation from the void to be a ste…

The most common issues that get brought to me by men include anxiety around penis size, penis hardness/ED, being unable to reach orgasm during sex with a woman, among other sexual dysfunctions, all o…

We’ve all wondered if we should just settle in relationship, give up, and just spend the rest of our days wondering “what if”. On this episode we explore the dangers of settling for practicality. GOD…

It’s a tricky tight-rope walk we do when attempting to traverse the contradictions within the human condition. We’re all made of many parts that both value logic AND magic. In our western culture, th…

What if you had as much insight and experience honing your sexual power as you have in being a hard working employee or entrepreneur? As a world-renowned Men’s Coach, our guest, Sarrah Rose, says: “E…

On this episode we cover:

✅ What Jimmy calls “shell masculinity”

✅ What it actually takes to be a man

✅ How Testosterone and Steroids affect who you are

✅ Asking for permission in relationship

✅ Deci…