28. Emotional Reasoning,

🎙️ MEN SEEKING CALM Podcast

Episode Title: Emotional Reasoning: When Feelings Pretend to Be Facts

Host: Greg Martin – WalkTheMountain.com

🧠 Episode Summary

In this episode, Greg explores the thinking trap of Emotional Reasoning — the tendency to believe something is true just because you feel it strongly. From feeling like a failure to assuming your relationship is falling apart, emotional reasoning can distort reality and sabotage connection.

Greg breaks it down with real examples, practical tools, and one powerful reminder:

“Feelings are signals, not facts.”

💡 What You’ll Learn

• What emotional reasoning is and why it’s so common (especially in men under relationship stress)


• How emotional reasoning hijacks logic and clarity


• Real-life examples of emotional reasoning in conflict


• Why feelings can’t always be trusted as evidence


• A simple self-check script to interrupt emotional spirals


• How to reconnect with your partner instead of withdrawing or attacking

🔁 Key Quotes

“The feeling becomes the proof — but it’s not proof at all.”

“Just because you feel like crap doesn’t mean everything is crap.”

“Say it with me: ‘I feel ___, but that doesn’t mean it’s true.’”

🛠️ Tools & Takeaways

• Pause and ask: “What’s the evidence for this feeling?”


• Say out loud: “I’m feeling [emotion], but that doesn’t mean it’s true.”


• Ask your partner what they’re actually thinking — don’t assume.


• Recognize the emotional lens, but don’t let it be the judge and jury.

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