How to Find Godly Friendships That LAST! | The Secret to Real Connection Revealed -Godly Friendships Part 4 (With Charity Majors)

Introduction: 

Welcome back to the Meant For More Podcast! In the latest installment of our Godly Friendships series, Charity Majors dives deep into what it means to build authentic, lasting, and Christ-centered friendships. This episode (part 4 in the series) is packed with practical tips, honest reflections, and inspiring encouragement on how to find – and become – the kind of friend who stands the test of time.

Charity explores her “PURSUE” framework for cultivating godly connections, discusses how to pray for discerning relationships, and shares heartfelt stories about her own lifelong friends. Whether you're seeking deeper connection, struggling with friendship breakups, or wanting to grow as a friend, this episode will empower you to build bonds rooted in faith.

Key Timestamps & Topics:

• [00:00:05] – Introduction & Recap of the “BOND” Foundation

• [00:02:06] – Why Godly Friendships Matter in Today’s Culture

• [00:04:36] – The PURSUE Framework: Step-by-Step Breakdown

  • Prayerful

  • Unique Value

  • Relational Risk

  • Selective

  • Uplifting

  • Engaging

• [00:10:51] – Real-Life Friendship Stories & Testimonies

• [00:26:39] – Embracing Relational Risk and Vulnerability

• [00:33:16] – Being Selective & The Power of Godly Influence

• [00:36:53] – Mutual Encouragement: Being an Uplifting Friend

• [00:37:54] – Engaging & Nurturing Lifelong Connections

• [00:45:11] – Charity’s Invitation for Prayer & Community

Key Takeaways:

• Pray for Godly Friendships: Finding true, faith-filled friends is not just luck — it starts with intentional, prayerful requests for God to guide your connections.

• Value Uniqueness: Celebrate the diverse gifts and perspectives each person brings; unity isn’t uniformity, and we grow through differences.

• Take Relational Risks: Vulnerability and intentionality are required—initiate conversations, “friend date,” and move beyond your comfort zone to build deeper bonds.

• Be Selective: Surround yourself with those who actively walk out their faith; your closest circle should help you grow closer to God.

• Live Uplifting Lives: Encourage, support, and celebrate your friends in the highs and lows; true friends mutually edify and inspire.

• Engage Regularly: Invest, participate, and maintain your friendships—nurtured relationships flourish, while neglected ones can fade.

• Communicate Needs: Healthy friendship evolves through honest conversations about expectations and seasons of life, always rooted in grace.

Links Mentioned:

• Create a Profitable Course Workshop: createaprofitablecourse.com

• Connect with Charity on Instagram: @charitymajors

• Resource Mentioned – Haley Braun’s “Checking Your Vitals” Training: Find on Haley Braun’s website

If you loved this episode or need prayer for authentic friendships, reach out to Charity on Instagram! And don’t forget to subscribe so you don’t miss the next episode in this life-changing series.

Ready to go deeper in faith-filled friendships? Listen now and let’s pursue real connection together!