Me & My Pod
Welcome to Me & My Pod — the raw, real, and often ridiculous journey of a cross-cultural marriage.
We’re Ricardo and Christian. Twenty years deep into a Haitian-American + American love story with five kids, a life in ministry, and a whole lot we’re still figuring out.
Each week, we take you behind the curtain of our relationship to talk parenting, faith, conflict, connection, money, marriage rhythms (and the lack of them), and what happens when love spans cultures, traditions, and expectations.
We're not experts. We’re not giving out formulas. We're opening our lives and asking the questions you're probably asking too. Whether you're newly married, raising kids, serving in ministry, or just navigating life together—we’re here to say: you’re not alone.
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Listen. Laugh. Learn. Fight fair. Stay curious.
Let’s grow—together.
- Update frequency
- every 8 days
- Average duration
- 31 minutes
- Episodes
- 7
- Years Active
- 2025
Pastors Are People Too: Real Talk on Church Hurt, Trust, and Ministry Life
What really happens when people leave a church? How do pastors and their families carry that weight? In this vulnerable episode of Me & My Pod, Ricardo and Christian sit down for a raw and honest con…
Dating Your Spouse After 20 Years and 5 Kids | Me & My Pod Episode 6
After 20 years of marriage and 5 kids, Ricardo and Christian share their unconventional dating secrets that kept their romance alive. From fake Walmart proposals to grocery store dates, discover why …
Life Is Ministry: Raising Kids, Serving Together, and Merging Faith with Everyday Life
Is ministry something you do, or is it simply how you live?
In this episode of Me & My Pod, Ricardo and Christian Volcy continue their conversation on love, marriage, and parenting by exploring a deep…
3 Marriage Secrets That Actually Work After 20 Years (Love is NOT What You Think)
Think love is enough to make a marriage last? After 20 years of marriage, 5 kids, and countless challenges, including almost losing their first baby, Ricardo and Christian share the raw truth about w…
From Elopement to Ministry: Our Real-Life Love Story After 11 Days of Engagement
In this episode of Me & My Pod, we rewind to the chaotic beauty of our beginning: dating for 11 months, getting engaged, and eloping just 11 days later.
We talk candidly about what it looked like to s…
We Got Married 11 Days After Getting Engaged | Me and My Pod Ep. 2
What happens when two people from completely different cultures meet at Bible college, awkwardly cross paths over a “lost” Bible, and then end up married just 11 days after getting engaged? You’re ab…
Cross-Cultural Marriage Reality Check | Me and My Pod
In this raw and relatable debut episode, Ricardo and Christian share what nearly 20 years of marriage has taught them—especially when you're building a life across cultures. From a Haitian upbringing…