Enneagram and Marriage Summer ep 2

Should Christians use the Enneagram?

Do your own research please! We advise all who use the enneagram to use it as a tool to view through the lens of the Gospel. You can find arguments from all angles, so just pray about what God would ask of you when it comes to using any tool, symbol, teaching, book, etc.

1. Moral Perfectionist/Reformer
2. Supportive Adviser/Helper
3. Successful Achiever
4. Romantic Individualist
5. Investigative Thinker

Resources found at
www.myenneagramcoach.com
www.Enneagramandmarriage.com

What the Bible says about our unique personalities

1. Psalm 139:14 - Embracing Your Uniqueness
   "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
   We are wonderfully crafted by God’s hands, each with a unique design and purpose. This verse reminds us to celebrate our individuality and recognize the intricate care God has taken in creating us. Every detail about us is intentional and purposeful. Be encouraged that you are a masterpiece in God's eyes, perfectly made for His plans. [Embrace your uniqueness]with gratitude and confidence.

2. 1 Corinthians 12:4-6 - Using Your God-Given Gifts
   "There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.”
   God has given each of us unique gifts and talents. These differences are not just by chance but by God’s design to fulfill various roles in His kingdom. When we use our gifts, we reflect God’s creativity and wisdom. Take heart knowing your unique abilities are valuable and essential to God’s work. Use them to serve others and glorify Him.

3. Jeremiah 1:5 - Your Unique Calling and Purpose
   "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."
   God has known us and set us apart for His purposes even before we were born. Our uniqueness is part of His divine plan and He has specific roles for us to play in His story. Feel encouraged that you are uniquely chosen and known by God for a special purpose. Trust in His plan for your life.

4. Ephesians 2:10 - Uniquely Made for Good Works
   "For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."
   As God’s handiwork, we are designed with intentionality and purpose to do good works. This verse highlights that our creation was not random but purposeful, with good works prepared for us to accomplish. Rejoice in knowing you are created with a divine purpose to fulfill. Step confidently into the good works God has planned for you.

5. 1 Peter 4:10 - Serving Others with Your Unique Abilities
   "Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms."
   We are called to use our unique gifts to serve others, being faithful stewards of God’s grace. Our individuality allows us to reach and impact people in ways others cannot. Be encouraged that your unique gifts can [make a difference in the lives of others]. Serve with joy and faithfulness.

6. Romans 12:6 - Diversity in Gifts
   "We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith;"
   Each of us is graced with different gifts that reflect God’s creative spirit. This diversity in gifts ensures that all aspects of God’s work are covered. Embrace your unique gifts and use them [confidently] in faith. Your individuality is a crucial part of God’s plan.

7. Exodus 9:16 - The Significance of Your Unique Purpose
   "But I have raised you up for this very purpose, that I might show you my power and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth."
   God raises us up for specific purposes to display His power and proclaim His name. Our unique journeys and experiences are part of how God shows His greatness. Find comfort in knowing your life has a powerful purpose in God’s plan. You are part of something much bigger than yourself.

8. Matthew 10:30 - God’s Attention to Detail
   "And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered."
   God knows every detail about us, even the number of hairs on our head. This level of care and attention shows just how precious we are to Him. Rest assured that God cares deeply about every aspect of your life. You are intimately known and loved by Him.

9. Isaiah 64:8 - Uniquely Shaped by God
   "Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand."
   As clay in the Potter’s hands, we are carefully and lovingly shaped by God. Each of us is molded uniquely, reflecting [God’s creativity] and purpose. Trust that you are being molded into a unique and beautiful creation by God’s hands. Embrace the process, knowing the outcome is wonderfully made.

10. Galatians 6:4 - Find Joy in Your Individual Path
    "Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else,"
    We are encouraged to focus on our own actions and not compare ourselves to others. Our individual paths are unique, and comparison only distracts us from our own journey. Take pride in your individuality and the unique path God has for you. [Celebrate your progress without comparison].

11. John 10:3 - Known by Name
    "The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out."
    God knows us by name and leads us personally. This personal relationship is a testament to our unique value to Him. Feel special knowing that Jesus knows you intimately and calls you by name. [Follow His lead]with confidence.

12. 1 Samuel 16:7 - Heart Over Appearance
    "But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.'"
    God values our hearts over outward appearances. This verse encourages us to [focus on our inner character], knowing that’s what matters most to God. Be encouraged that God sees and values your heart above all else. Cultivate a heart that honors Him.

13. Proverbs 5:15 - Embracing Your Own Path
    "Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well."
    We are called to focus on our own blessings and resources. This verse reminds us to appreciate and nurture what God has uniquely given us. Find joy in the unique blessings and resources God has given you. Cherish and develop your own path.

14. Luke 12:7 - Valued Beyond Measure
    "Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows."
    God values us greatly, knowing even the smallest details about us. This assurance of our worth helps us overcome fear and anxiety. Take courage in knowing you are incredibly valued by God. Your worth is beyond measure in His eyes.

15. Romans 8:29 - God’s Unique Plan
    "For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters."
    We are predestined to be conformed to the image of Christ. This transformation is unique for each of us, reflecting God’s design. Be inspired by God’s unique plan to [shape you into the image of His Son]. Embrace the journey of transformation.

16. 2 Timothy 1:7 - Living Fearlessly
    "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."_
    God equips us with a spirit of power, love and a sound mind. Our unique spirit is a gift from Him to overcome fear and live boldly. Embrace the unique strength and courage God has given you. Live fearlessly and love deeply.

17. Psalm 119:73 - Purposeful Formation
    "Your hands made me and formed me; give me understanding to learn your commands."_
    God’s hands have formed us with purpose and intention. We are encouraged to seek understanding and live according to His commands. Seek understanding and embrace the unique way God has made you. Live purposefully in His design.

18. Jeremiah 29:11 - God’s Unique Plan for Your Future
    "For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."_
    God’s plans for us are unique and filled with hope. This promise assures us that God’s intentions are for our well-being and future. Take comfort in knowing that [God’s unique plans] for you are for your good and future. Trust in His hopeful plans.

19. Genesis 1:27 - Your Individuality Reflects God’s Image
    "So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them."
    We are uniquely created in the image of God. This fundamental truth affirms our inherent value and dignity. Rejoice in your unique reflection of God’s image. Celebrate your divine design.

20. Philippians 2:13 - God’s Unique Work in You
    "For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose."

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