BEING INTERESTED IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN BEING INTERESTING.
If you're more concerned with "proving" yourself than "staying present" - you're wasting valuable time and energy.
Competence is proven through actions, behaviors, choices, and taking responsibility for mistakes in real time. We're not typically impressed with braggarts and show-offs. We see right through the inauthenticity that comes from people attempting to be "interesting".
Being someone who offers genuine interest in others and themselves from a place of earnest curiosity, is far more interesting than those who are forcing it.
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