56: Bad Advice Part 3 - The Dangerous Kind

Author: Ellen Dorian
Published: Thu 26 Jun 2025
Episode Link: https://makemorelove.show

Host Ellen Dorian dissects dangerous relationship advice, offering insights on love imbalances, misguided solutions, and the importance of proactive relationship maintenance.

Part 1: The Dangers of Unequal Love

- Explores the advice: "Be with someone who loves you more than you love them"

- Discusses the negative impacts of this approach on relationships and self-worth

- Highlights the importance of mutual love and respect in partnerships

Part 2: Misguided Solutions for Relationship Problems

- Analyzes common "radical" solutions people try when relationships struggle

- Examines why these solutions often fail to address underlying issues

- Emphasizes the need for internal repair before external changes

Part 3: Debunking Myths About Relationship Help

- Addresses the misconception that seeking help indicates serious problems

- Explains the benefits of proactive relationship maintenance

- Encourages viewing relationship help as strategic planning rather than crisis management

Key Takeaways:

- Love should not be a power play; imbalanced relationships breed resentment

- External fixes cannot solve internal relationship problems

- Preventative maintenance is crucial for healthy, long-lasting relationships

Call to Action:

Ellen encourages listeners to identify and address any misguided ideas in their own relationships. She invites them to share other examples of bad advice they've encountered.

Closing Thoughts:

The episode emphasizes the importance of leadership in relationships, urging couples to address issues proactively rather than waiting for crises to occur.

Support & Resources:

Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

All links can be found below.

"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and In Your Life.'" - Ellen Dorian

Disclaimer:

The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations.