23: Build A Bonfire: Steps to Reignite Your Relationship

Author: Ellen Dorian
Published: Thu 19 Sep 2024
Episode Link: https://makemorelove.show

In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian introduces the Bonfire Framework, a method designed to help entrepreneurial men enhance their relationships through small, intentional actions. Ellen discusses the common challenges couples face and offers practical steps to build and maintain a strong, intimate connection with their partners.

Part 1: Common Relationship Issues and The Bonfire Framework

- Ellen shares the dramatic impact of small changes that she experienced at the Mediterranean Keto Wellness Retreat she attended recently.

- Ellen explains 3 common relationship challenges: Lack of Connection, Diminishing Intimacy, and Neglecting Maintenance.

- Ellen addresses these common relationship challenges with her new Bonfire Framework

Part 2: Steps of the Bonfire Framework

- Step 1: Light the Spark - Initiating connection through simple, thoughtful actions.

- Step 2: Feed the Flame - Maintaining momentum with regular, meaningful gestures.

- Step 3: Add Fuel - Building consistency with planned activities and deep conversations.

- Step 4: Bask in the Warmth - Appreciating the closeness and celebrating progress.

Part 3: Applying the Framework Based on Your Relationship Stage

- Ellen explains how to apply the framework to different relationship stages: Solid, Stagnant, and Struggling.

- She addresses common listener concerns about whether the framework will work for their relationship

- Offers a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized guidance.

Key Takeaways:

- Small actions can significantly impact relationship dynamics.
- Consistency is crucial for maintaining a strong connection.
- Enjoying the process is essential for a fulfilling relationship.

Call to Action:

- Subscribe to the podcast and share it with friends who might benefit.

- Consider booking a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized support.

Closing Thoughts:

Ellen emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with the reasons for choosing your partner and discovering new ways to enhance your relationship.

Support & Resources:

Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com

All links can be found below.

If you want to learn more about the Divorce Risk Condition Scale (DivCON) listen to Episode 16:

https://www.makemorelove.show/16-relationship-dynamics-and-the-divcon-scale/

"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian

Disclaimer:

The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.