15: Finding Your Inner Voice in Relationships and Beyond

Author: Ellen Dorian
Published: Thu 13 Jun 2024
Episode Link: https://makemorelove.show

In this episode, Ellen Dorian continues her conversation with mindset and business coach Justin Wiseman. Justin shares his journey from working in a family-owned pizza shop to becoming a successful coach, highlighting the importance of mindset over business strategies. They discuss societal pressures on men to be providers and how these expectations can lead to personal and professional challenges. The episode offers insights into redefining success, embracing authenticity, and the transformative power of mindset shifts.

Part 1: Justin's Early Career and Lessons from Hospitality

Justin's start in the hospitality industry at a family-owned pizza shop.
The importance of working your way up and learning every aspect of the business.
How these early experiences taught him the value of reliability, pride in work, and the fundamentals of running a business.

Part 2: Societal Pressures and Overcoming Traditional Masculine Roles

Discussion on the ingrained roles of protector, provider, and pursuer.
The generational differences in how men perceive success and pressure.
Justin’s personal journey of transformation, realizing his value beyond being a provider, and the impact of societal expectations and social media.

Part 3: Authenticity, Inner Work, and Rebuilding Success

Justin's reflections on his father's influence and societal expectations.
The importance of defining success on personal terms and embracing authenticity.
How Justin and his wife navigated personal and professional challenges, including homelessness, to rebuild their lives and achieve a seven-figure business.
The significance of mindset shifts and inner work in achieving personal fulfillment and professional success.

Key Takeaways:

Traditional masculine roles can be deeply ingrained, but it's possible to overcome them.
Defining success on your own terms is crucial for personal fulfillment.
Authenticity and inner work are key to building healthier relationships and a fulfilling life.
Societal expectations and social media can negatively impact self-worth if not addressed.
Balancing business ambitions with personal values leads to a more satisfying journey.

Call to Action:

Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own definitions of success and consider the impact of societal expectations on their lives. For personalized support, they can set up a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to discuss their specific situations and create a plan for improvement.

Closing Thoughts:

Ellen highlights the importance of redefining masculinity and success in a way that aligns with one's true self. She emphasizes the value of inner work and authenticity in building meaningful relationships and achieving personal fulfillment.

Support & Resources:

Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

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