We explore the exhausting cycle of trying to prove our worth in relationships and how to break free from this pattern of performative love.
• Performative love occurs when we overextend ourselves for people who give us crumbs in return
• This pattern often stems from childhood trauma where love was conditional upon performance
• Real love is soft, mutual, peaceful, and doesn't require a performance
• Stop trying to earn love and start recognizing your inherent worth
• Healing includes sitting with your inner child, using affirmations, and creating new standards
• Setting boundaries may mean some people don't understand, but distance can be protection
• The right people will see your worth without requiring you to prove it
Continue to be bold in your healing, brave in who you're becoming, and grounded in love that knows its worth. Keep growing, keep glowing, and never settle for less than real.
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