From Attachment to Secure Love: Trusting yourself in Relationship

What does it mean to feel secure, trust your partner, stop being afraid—and still honor your own freedom? 

What if love didn’t have to come at the cost of your independence, or your independence at the cost of love?

In this episode, Nicole explores the dance between attachment and healthy detachment—two forces that shape the way we love, lose ourselves, or finally come home to who we are.

She begins by clearly breaking down what healthy attachment really is, and how it differs from the fear-based pull of anxious or avoidant patterns.  

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

– What secure attachment feels like in real life

– The signs of anxious and avoidant patterns

– Nicole’s personal & relational patterns 

– How to trust yourself more than the outcome

– How Nicole finds trust 

- Why detachment doesn’t mean disconnection

– The possibility for feeling love while staying emotionally free

This is a reminder that you are already whole, and that the deepest love begins when you no longer abandon yourself to be chosen.

🌷How are you feeling, but really honestly? I hope this episodes helped you in some way! 💛

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