The Libido Doc on Desire, Dopamine and Lasting Intimacy

What keeps passion alive after the honeymoon phase? In this episode of Love, Laughs & Lessons, Dr. Frankie and Denise sit down with Dr. Diane Mueller, known as The Libido Doc, to talk about the science and soul of lasting desire.

Dr. Diane explains how dopamine drives attraction, why novelty fuels intimacy, and how flirting can rekindle connection. She clears up misconceptions about vibrators, shares her Yes/No/Maybe checklist, and highlights why open communication is the most powerful tool for lasting intimacy.

We cover:

• Why desire fades in long-term relationships and how to reignite it

• The surprising benefits of vibrators for pelvic health and pleasure

• How novelty, play, and fantasy create excitement in monogamy

• Practical ways to bring flirting and curiosity back into daily life

This conversation blends science, strategy, and heart, offering couples tools to reconnect, reignite, and rediscover intimacy.

Guest Bio

Dr. Diane Mueller, “The Libido Doc”
Dr. Diane Mueller, ND, DAOM, is a board-certified sexologist with dual doctorates in Naturopathic Medicine and Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine. She is the founder of the sex education center MyLibidoDoc.com and host of The Libido Lounge podcast, where she helps monogamous couples create more passion, desire, better communication, and hotter sex.  

Website: MyLibidoDoc.com

Novelty Checklist (Yes/No/Maybe Tool): MySexDoc.com

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