If Your Reason for Marriage Is Wrong, Your Choices Will Be Too”

If your reason for marriage is just “to be happy,” you might be missing the point. In this episode, we unpack the fourth step in the PREPARE for Love That Lasts series: Purpose for Marriage. Because when your why is off, your choices will be too.

I’m sharing how God completely transformed my understanding of marriage—from something I thought would complete me to a spiritual calling that reflects His covenant love. If you’ve ever felt confused about what marriage is really for, this episode will bring clarity, conviction, and encouragement.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The difference between worldly and biblical views of marriage
• What Ephesians 5 teaches us about the true purpose of marriage
• 6 biblical reasons God created marriage—and why they still matter
• What it looks like to date with a “marriage mindset” that honors God
• The questions you should be asking before choosing a partner
• How to align your desire for marriage with God's heart and timing

Key Takeaway:

“Marriage isn’t just about finding someone to love—it’s about creating a covenant that reflects how Christ loves us.”

Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step):

This week, take time to write out your personal WHY for marriage. Then ask yourself:

“Are my reasons in line with God’s design for love and marriage?”

If they aren’t, surrender them in prayer and ask God to align your heart with His purpose.

I Want to Hear From You.

Got something you want me to cover in the Q&A episode after this series?

Share your thoughts here or email me at [email protected].

Next Steps:

• Go back and listen to Episode 4 on character & emotional maturity—it sets the tone for this one.
• Subscribe so you don’t miss Episode 6, where we’ll talk about alignment in faith and calling—because love isn’t enough without shared purpose.
• Share this episode with a friend who’s praying for marriage but may need a deeper understanding of God’s design.