Blind Spots in Dating: Why Community Can Save You Heartache.

Sis, let’s be real—when you’re in love, it’s easy to miss things. The red flags. The warning signs. The subtle misalignments. That’s why you need trusted, godly people around you who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth… even when you don’t want to hear it.

In this episode, we’re digging into Step 2 of the PREPARE for Love That Lasts series: Receive Community Counsel. You’ll hear how I learned this lesson the hard way (including the story of my mom’s “funny little feelings”), and why I believe wise voices are a gift from God to help protect your heart, confirm your discernment, and hold you up as you wait for God’s best.

In this episode, we’ll cover:

• Why community isn’t optional when you’re preparing for marriage
• What the Bible really says about isolation, pride, and counsel
• How to recognize wise counsel versus emotional opinions
• What I wish I had listened to sooner in my dating journey
• 4 ways godly counsel will sharpen your love life
• A simple way to start inviting the right people into your relationship decisions

Checkpoint Challenge (Your Weekly Action Step):

This week, ask God to highlight one person who can be a wise voice in your love life. Then take the next step:

• 📲 Text them, set up a conversation, and ask, “Would you be willing to walk with me and speak into my relationship decisions?”

✨ Then promise yourself you’ll listen—even when it’s not what you want to hear.

I Want to Hear From You!

Okay sis, it’s your turn to talk to me! I don’t want this podcast to be one-sided—I want to hear your heart.

💌 Tell me:

• What’s one question you’ve been dying to ask about love, dating, or marriage?
• Or what’s one topic you want me to cover in a future episode?

👉 Share your thoughts here

Or just send me a note at [email protected]. I’d love to hear from you!

📌 Next Steps:

• Missed Episode 2? Go listen to “Pursue God First”—it’s the foundation for all of this.
• Follow the show so you don’t miss Episode 4 (it's gonna be good—character check time 👀).
• Share this episode with a friend who is dating and needs a supportive community.
• Follow me on Instagram @lovejourneyxoxo or Facebook @lovejourneyxo for weekly encouragement and updates.

Remember: God’s way isn’t always the quickest… But it is the way that leads to a love that lasts.