The Myth of Chemistry — And What Aligned Love Actually Feels Like

In this eye-opening episode of Love By Design, Joan Nwosu dismantles one of the biggest myths about love: that intense chemistry means lasting connection.

Joan shares how discovering Human Design revealed the truth about her own patterns — and why so many high-achieving women confuse sparks for substance.

You’ll learn the 3 layers of attraction inside Joan’s signature REAL Attraction Pyramid — Chemistry, Compatibility, and Conscious Alignment — and why the deepest layer is where real, soul-level love lives.

If you’re done chasing the thrill that never lasts — and ready for love that feels calm, clear, and deeply right — this episode is for you.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

💫 Why “the spark” isn’t proof he’s your soulmate

💫 How your nervous system and past conditioning trick you into choosing what’s familiar, not what’s aligned

💫 The 3 layers of attraction: Chemistry, Compatibility, and Conscious Alignment

💫 How Human Design helped Joan break her own toxic cycles

💫 What aligned love actually feels like in your body and spirit

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

✨ Joan’s personal Human Design revelations (Projector, Emotional Authority)

✨ The REAL Attraction Pyramid framework

✨ Teaser for next week’s episode on how to Date with Soul in a Swipe Culture

CONNECT WITH JOAN:

📸 Instagram: @joan_nwosu

💼 LinkedIn: Joan Nwosu

🌐 Learn more: datingwithjoan.com

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• Stay tuned for Ep 3: How to Date with Soul in a Swipe Culture — dropping soon!

You’re not too much. You’re not too late. You’re exactly right on time — for love, by design.