The Love Gates – How You’re Energetically Designed to Love- Gate 10

You’ve done the therapy. You’ve learned your Strategy. You’re tuning into your Authority.

But when it comes to love—how do you actually express it?

In this episode of Love By Design, Joan Nwosu introduces the Love Gates — the 11 energetic portals in Human Design that govern how we give and receive love.

These aren’t just romantic tendencies. These are deeply encoded love languages in your body graph.

We begin with Gate 10, the Gate of Self-Love and Authenticity. Joan unpacks how this gate can show up in both its transcendent (embodied, magnetic) form and mundane (performative, approval-seeking) expression — and how it may be secretly shaping your entire relationship history.

✨ What the Love Gates are — and why they matter in dating

✨ Why Gate 10 is the foundation of all aligned love

✨ The difference between embodied magnetism vs. performed love

✨ How to shift from seeking approval to radiating authenticity

✨ A self-love practice to activate your own Gate 10

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You don’t have to perform to be loved.

Your authenticity is the magnet.