I Thought My Picker Was Broken (But It Was My Programming)

In this powerful first episode of Love by Design, Joan Nwosu shares her raw and real origin story — from broken engagements and cross-continental heartbreaks to finally uncovering the truth behind her dating patterns.

If you’ve ever thought your “picker” was broken, this episode will show you that it was never about your worth — it was your programming.

Joan introduces her signature REAL Attraction Pyramid and unpacks why most traditional dating advice doesn’t work for high-achieving women. This is where dating shifts from chasing chemistry to choosing alignment.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

✨ Why your past relationships aren’t proof that you’re unlovable

✨ How childhood and societal programming shape your love life

✨ The REAL Attraction Pyramid — a framework for aligned love

✨ Why high-achieving women need a new dating paradigm

✨ The difference between chemistry, compatibility, and alignment

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

• Joan’s signature framework: The REAL Attraction Pyramid. Download the Playbook here

• What it really means to date by design

• Teaser for Episode 2: The Myth of Chemistry — And What Aligned Love Actually Feels Like

CONNECT WITH JOAN:

📸 Instagram: @joan_nwosu

💼 LinkedIn: Joan Nwosu

💌 Work with Joan: joannwosu.com

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