Whether you know it or not, your relationship with others is influenced by something called Attachment Styles. The style in which we attached to others can cause us great joy, or great pain. Over the last four episodes I spoke about how attachment styles form, and then I talked about Secure, Anxious and Avoidant attachment styles.
This week I am covering Disorgansed Attachment. This style is a particularly interesting one because it incorporates the energy of anxious and avoidant attachment at once. It is still being studied and leads to a lot of disregulation and chaos in the nervous system and an inability to feel safe or loved.
Although attachment styles is something I learned when I was studying to be a therapist, I have had 2 main mentors who have really helped me to understand this and how it plays out in our lives; Georgia Rose and Chantelle Raven. You can find out more about Georgia here on Facebook: www.facebook.com/georgiaroseevents
and here on on Instagram: @georgia_liberate
And Chantelle here: embodiedawakeningacademy.com/
Here also are 2 different questionnaires on attachment styles for you to find out which dominant style you are: https://www.attachmentproject.com/attachment-style-quiz/
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https://traumasolutions.com/attachment-styles-quiz/
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