A 'good divorce'? With Wendy Paris

Wendy Paris, journalist and mom, joins me to talk about the revolution afoot: There are in fact good divorces, and she can tell you how to have one.

In her new and wonderful book, Splitopia, Paris explains the elements of a good divorce, how to achieve them, and the beauty of normalizing the end of a marriage.

In this episode she shares:

• How to go through the inevitable freak-out of divorce without destroying your life.


• The balance between self-love, and self-reflective, brutal honesty.


• Dating, sex and love after your marriage shits the bed.


• Why and how to avoid spending your retirement and kids' college fund on a divorce lawyer.

Have a listen - she's delightful, wise and offers the roadmap for ushering this inevitable life event into the 21st century and beyond.