How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex (Without Making It Weird)

Talking to your kids about sex, gender, and identity can feel overwhelming, especially when the world isn’t shy about it, and the church often is. In this honest and grace-filled episode, Jonathan and Ali sit down with Family Pastor and dad of four, Bill Monday, to unpack what it looks like to have open, age-appropriate conversations with your children from toddlerhood through the teen years.

🔔 Heads-up: This episode includes candid conversations about anatomy and sexuality. Consider listening without little ears around.

Pastor Bill shares real-life stories (some hilarious, some sobering), practical tips, and biblical wisdom on:

• Why using correct terms like penis and vulva matters from day one
• How shame and silence around sexuality go all the way back to Genesis
• Natural moments to talk with your kids—like bath time, doctor visits, and car rides
• Guarding against sexual abuse by teaching boundaries and ditching family “secrets”
• Handling puberty, dating, and identity with clarity, compassion, and gospel hope

Whether you feel behind, unsure, or just want to do better, this episode offers clarity, encouragement, and hope. You don’t need to have “the talk” - you need to have a hundred little ones.

Resources:
myfamilytable.org

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