Did I Marry the Right Person?!

Let’s dive into the unfiltered reality of marriage with Pastor Michael and Jenny Ewart - three decades, six kids, and a love story that started with a bold move to the heart of Russia. Michael, a seasoned marriage counselor, and Jenny, with her quick wit and authentic insight, share the lessons they’ve learned from both their victories and their “banana hook” moments. From the first-date butterflies to the seasons of silence, they speak into the miscommunication, unmet expectations, and emotional disconnect that can creep into any relationship - and how faith, intentionality, and choosing each other daily can turn things around. So grab your coffee (or your walking shoes) and join us for a vulnerable, hope-filled conversation that will leave you challenged, encouraged, and reminded that while marriage can be messy, it’s also one of the most beautiful adventures worth every bit of effort.

Here’s what you’ll find in this episode:

• The "Death Spiral": Understanding the core needs of men and women and how a lack of fulfilling these can lead to a relationship's decline.
• Breaking the Cycle: How intentionally choosing to give what your spouse needs, even when they aren't, can reverse a downward spiral and cultivate a "life spiral".
• Positive Intent: Learning to assume the best motives in your partner, even when expectations aren't met.
• Emotional Mismatch: Practical strategies for managing heightened emotions in one partner and withdrawal in the other, aiming to meet in the middle for more productive conversations.
• "Did I Marry the Right Person?": Addressing this common thought during conflict and why commitment and choosing your spouse daily are key to building a lasting bond.
• Intentional Intimacy: Discovering meaningful ways to stay connected that don't always involve traditional date nights, especially when life is busy.
• Seeking Outside Help: Why bringing in a pastor, Christian friend, or counselor can be transformative for your marriage, especially before bad habits become deeply ingrained.

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