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What Domestic Violence Really Looks Like (and How to Heal) | Sarah Doucette

Author
Jessica Vanrose
Published
Tue 24 Sep 2024
Episode Link
https://shows.acast.com/the-unbarred-woman/episodes/66ee11bc31f795c3bb29eb69

In this conversation, Jessica Vanrose and Sarah Doucette discuss Sarah's memoir, 'Stronger Than That,' which details her journey through an abusive marriage and her path to healing. They explore themes of coercive control, financial abuse, the importance of support networks, and the role of therapy in recovery. Sarah shares her insights on recognizing patterns in relationships, the societal impact of domestic violence, and offers advice for those looking to leave abusive situations. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, understanding, and community support in addressing domestic violence.


Takeaways


The journey of healing is complex and personal.

Coercive control can manifest in financial abuse.

Leaving an abusive relationship often requires a strategic plan.

Support networks are crucial for those in abusive situations.

Therapy can help survivors recognize and process their trauma.

Shame is often used as a manipulation tactic by abusers.

It's important to stay informed about personal finances to prevent coercive debt.

Domestic violence has a significant societal impact, affecting productivity and the economy.

Recognizing patterns in relationships is key to building healthier connections.

Trusting your instincts is vital when assessing your relationship.


Chapters


00:00 The Journey of Abuse and Survival

06:36 The Complexity of Leaving an Abusive Relationship

13:58 Shame as a Manipulation Tactic

15:27 Understanding Coercive Debt and Financial Abuse

20:48 The Importance of Financial Independence

25:23 Listening To and Trusting your Inner Voice

27:58 Releasing Guilt & the Role of Therapy in Healing

39:33 Community Support and Resources

45:36 The Global Impact of Domestic Violence

51:28 Listener Question: Can someone grow out of physically abusing you

56:51 Final Thoughts & Advice


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