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Your Love Language is Avoidance Part 2

Author
Steph & Shellbz
Published
Mon 01 Sep 2025
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Relationships fail. It happens. But why is it so hard to admit when we've played a role in their demise? 

This raw, unfiltered conversation tackles the uncomfortable truth about relationship endings—they're rarely one person's fault. Through candid stories of marriages that crumbled and partnerships that dissolved, we explore the liberating power of admitting "both of us were fucked in that situation." This isn't about blame but about the growth that comes from honest self-reflection.

We dive into anxiety's paradoxical nature in relationships, functioning as both destroyer and potential superpower. For those who've battled relationship anxiety, we offer perspectives on transforming that hypervigilance into something constructive. The conversation meanders through unexpected territory, revealing how embracing your inner child—whether through Batman signal lights, basketball hoops, or Pokemon cards—creates space for authentic connection with partners who accept your whole self.

The discussion takes a serious turn when addressing the prohibitive cost of mental healthcare, with therapy sessions running $250 each and some people needing multiple weekly appointments. We question whether these financial barriers serve as intentional gatekeeping, keeping crucial resources from those who need them most. For listeners struggling with access to mental healthcare, we share alternative resources that have helped us bridge the gaps.

This episode isn't just about our stories—it's an invitation to join a larger conversation. We're asking you to send in your relationship questions, dilemmas, and topics for future discussions. Whether you're healing from relationship trauma or building something new, there's wisdom in collective experience and power in knowing you're not alone in your struggles.

Join our Discord community through our website at letscommunicate.com or email your thoughts to [email protected]. Your story matters, and we're here to listen.

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