156. Taking Power Back with the Stories We Are Called to Tell featuring Diane Vonglis Parnell

Author: Ronit Plank
Published: Tue 11 Mar 2025
Episode Link: https://letstalkmemoir.podbean.com/e/156-taking-power-back-with-the-stories-we-are-called-to-tell-featuring-diane-vonglis-parnell/

Diane Vonglis Parnell joins Let’s Talk Memoir for a conversation about growing up with 9 siblings on an isolated farm under the tyranny of her abusive father and living in constant fear, homing in on the story we are called to tell, steering clear of portraying ourselves as victim or hero, not having closure, yearning for a mother, emotional absence, self-nurturing, trusting readers, the toll of secrets, changing names of family members, sharing manuscripts with siblings, writing about abusers, taking power back, and her new memoir The Taste of Anger.

Also in this episode:

-the importance of therapy to memoirists

-opting for a child narrator

-writing about emotional neglect and depression

Books mentioned in this episode:

The Liar’s Club by Mary Karr

The Art of Memoir by Mary Karr

Autobiography of a Face by Lucy Grealey

Creep by Myriam Gurba

Diane Vonglis Parnell grew up on a remote farm in Western New York with nine siblings. Her essay Blame the Milkman was a winner in the Fish Publishing short memoir contest, and included in the Fish Anthology 2022. Vonglis Parnell is a Scrabble enthusiast, and a lover of progressive rock music. She serves as a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) volunteer for abused children in her community, and lives a minimalist’s life in a 200-square-foot cottage in San Luis Obispo, California.

Connect with Diane:

Facebook.com/dianevonglisparnell

Instagram: @dianevonglisparnell

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Ronit’s writing has appeared in The Atlantic, The Rumpus, The New York Times, Poets & Writers, The Iowa Review, Hippocampus, The Washington Post, Writer’s Digest, American Literary Review, and elsewhere. Her memoir WHEN SHE COMES BACK about the loss of her mother to the guru Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh and their eventual reconciliation was named Finalist in the 2021 Housatonic Awards Awards, the 2021 Indie Excellence Awards, and was a 2021 Book Riot Best True Crime Book. Her short story collection HOME IS A MADE-UP PLACE won Hidden River Arts’ 2020 Eludia Award and the 2023 Page Turner Awards for Short Stories.

She earned an MFA in Nonfiction Writing at Pacific University, is Creative Nonfiction Editor at The Citron Review, and teaches memoir through the University of Washington's Online Continuum Program and also independently. She launched Let's Talk Memoir in 2022, lives in Seattle with her family of people and dogs, and is at work on her next book.

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156. Taking Power Back with the Stories We Are Called to Tell featuring Diane Vonglis Parnell