The Filter of Fear: Defensiveness and Perception

This episode unpacks how fear shapes our perception and fuels defensiveness, often without us realizing it. Through candid reflection, the conversation explores how much energy is wasted when we resist feedback or shut down emotionally—and how curiosity can become the antidote. By examining the root of our reactions and reframing them through awareness, we learn how to shift out of fear and into growth, leading to more honest and empowered relationships with ourselves and others. 

This podcast dives deep into real, raw topics—think vulnerability, triggers, and childhood trauma. But just so we're super clear: I’m not a licensed therapist, mental health professional, or anything close. I’m just a human sharing stories, lessons, and life hacks based on personal experience and a whole lot of curiosity.

So, while you might find some golden nuggets here, this is not therapy and should never replace professional mental health care. If you or someone you love is going through it, please—seriously—reach out to a licensed therapist or healthcare provider. You deserve the real deal.

Need Help Now?
Here are a few amazing resources:

· 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988
· NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-NAMI (6264) or nami.org/help
· Therapy Directory: psychologytoday.com
· Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741

The opinions expressed on this show are ours and ours alone—no official organizations are responsible for what we say (or how much we overshare).