3 CRUCIAL Conversations You Need to Have In Your Relationship

Some of the most important conversations in your relationship are the ones you aren’t having. In this episode, Coach Los breaks down three powerful, often-overlooked conversations that reveal everything from emotional alignment to long-term compatibility:

💬 1. How You Handle Setbacks & Failure
Discover how your partner copes with disappointment, stress, and conflict—especially between the two of you. This conversation exposes emotional resilience, coping styles, and whether you clash or complement each other under pressure.

💬 2. What Retirement Looks Like Together
This forward-focused convo reveals whether your long-term vision aligns. Are you building a life with each other—or just running parallel races toward individual goals? Get clear on the real foundation your relationship is built on.

💬 3. Your Relationship with Boredom
Downtime exposes everything. Do you or your partner rely on external stimulation or validation to feel fulfilled? Are you aligned when it comes to simplicity, peace, or personal growth in the “in-between” moments? This conversation helps reveal codependence, compatibility gaps, and more.

If you’ve ever felt like something is “off” in your relationship but couldn’t put your finger on it, these three convos might be the key to unlocking deeper understanding, connection, and clarity.