069: How to Spot a Toxic Man (Before You Get Attached)

If you’re tired of attracting men who ghost, collapse, or manipulate, this episode is for you. I’m exposing the 4 shadow states of the wounded masculine — and giving you a simple tool to spot them early, so you never waste another year on the wrong man.

Because the truth is: you don’t have time to waste on boys in costumes. You’re craving a King — a man who is present, devoted, and ready to love you deeply. And once you know what to look for (and what to walk away from), your entire love life shifts.

✨ In this episode, you’ll hear:

• The 4 toxic masculine archetypes to avoid at all costs.

• How to tell the difference between wounded masculine energy vs. healthy masculine leadership.

• A simple 3-step tool to quickly discern whether a man is aligned with the love you desire.

• Why your nervous system keeps normalizing dysfunction — and how to rewire it to attract devotion.

• The #1 shift you need to make to stop chasing chaos and start magnetizing Kings.

  
  

Ways to Connect & Work With Me

🌹 If you’re ready to stop settling for toxic love and start embodying the Lover — DM me “LOVER” on Instagram @IAmMelissaPeters for all the details.
✨ Learn more about LOVER: Dripping in Eros here.
💌 Share this episode with a woman you love who deserves devotion, not breadcrumbs.

Keywords:

Toxic men, wounded masculine, masculine archetypes, healthy masculine energy, dating red flags, spotting toxic men, attract healthy relationships, feminine energy, polarity, anxious attachment, dating advice for women, how to attract a King.