How to Get Anyone to Open Up | FBI-Level Psychology with Michael Reddington
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- James Laughlin
- Published
- Wed 07 May 2025
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Michael Reddington has spent decades mastering the art of getting to the truth—not through force, but through listening. In this episode, he unpacks how high-stakes interrogation techniques apply to leadership, parenting, interviews, and everyday life. If you lead people—or want to influence others—this one is a masterclass.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why most people don’t lie—they just protect
- How to encourage honesty without forcing a confession
- The 3 psychological needs you must meet to get someone to open up
- Why “why” questions shut people down—and what to ask instead
- What world leaders, parents, and CEOs can all learn from interrogators
Why You Should Listen:
If you're a parent, leader, coach, or partner, this episode will change how you ask questions forever. It’s not manipulation—it’s communication done right.
This episode was proudly sponsored by NZ Mortgages. You can contact them here - https://www.nzmortgages.co.nz
- Learn more about Michael here - https://michaelreddington.com
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