Korean Adoptee Cries After Discovering Birth Family Roots [R.A.W. Talk ep. 008: Sean Lange]

Korean Adoptee Stories is proud to present Korean Adoptee: Sean Lange, Father of Four who reached out to us wanting to have a chat with us about the affects of adoption and his relationships. Imagine growing up feeling different, alone and disconnected from everybody else and finally perhaps given that chance to solve that missing part of the puzzle that has left a mark on your existence. This experience affected Mr. Lange so much that he experienced a lot of emotion during this interview. We appreciate Mr. Lange's honesty and transparency that we know many other adoptees will relate to the experiences of growing up and living the life of an adoptee. Right now, after discovering this Korean Adoptee moment inside his soul he wants to help others come to terms with what it means to being Korean and an adoptee.

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Key Topics Covered:

0:48 - Intro & Personal Background

1:54 - Members of Adoptive Family

4:38 - Death of Adoptive Father at Age 5

3:32 - Dealing with Adoptive Mother's Abuse

3:59 - Identity & Childhood Experiences with Korean Culture

6:34 - Abandonment Issues as a Child

7:27 - Birth Family Records

9:21 - Emotional Moment of Discovering First Cousin

11:40 - Information About Biological Mother & Family Dynamics

13:34 - Information About Birth Father & Search

16:04 - Identity Experiences of Feeling Caucasian or Asian

19:24 - Dynamics of Relationships & Marriage to a Korean Born Person & Children

21:57 - Experiencing Divorce 

24:44 - Custody of Children & Legal Issues

26:58 - Parenting Styles & Moving to California

28:11 - Coping Mechanisms & Dealing with Issues

30:03 - Coming to Terms with Adoption Issues

30:58 - Desire to Return to Korea

33:26 - More Details about First Marriage, Travelling Lifestyle, Parenting, & Children

36:10 - Describing First Arrest 4 Years Ago

37:39 - Meeting Second Wife & Having Two More Daughters

38:43 - Being a Better Parent After Arrest

40:16 - Diabetes & 90 Pound Weight Loss

42:02 - The Dating Pool & Keeping Everyone at Arms Length

49:29 - Job with Working in Human Resources

49:43 - Life Lessons & Connecting with KADS

52:59 - More Details about Relationship with Adoptive Mother

56:06 - Involvement with the Adoptive Community & Beginning the Journey

57:44 - Being More Communicative Emotionally as a Male

1:00:01 - Life Advice, Working Towards Being a Life Coach

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YouTube Video Can Be Viewed Here::

https://youtu.be/7vQvjKlLxjA

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