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Just Listen To Me!

The podcast that talks about all things relationships: couples counselling, attachment theory, gendered conditioning, trauma and mental health, affairs, family issues and much much more!
Julia is a couples counsellor specialising in working with couples using Emotionally Focussed Couples Therapy (EFCT). EFCT is an effective evidence based couples therapy which recognises that emotions play a big part in your relationship. They show you when you feel your boundaries have been crossed, and when you feel hurt or unloved.
They also show you when you feel appreciated, valued and supported. Julia uses EFCT to help you focus on your core emotions so you can make sense of repeating negative cycles and patterns in your relationship. Julia also use attachment science to help you understand how the love you did or didn't receive in childhood affects your adult relationships.
EFCT is a powerful tool and can help you to gain a better understanding of yourself, your partner and how you relate to each other. Through EFCT, Julia can teach you how to communicate your needs with your partner so you can both feel respected, supported, trusted, valued, loved and deeply connected.

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Update frequency
every 8 days
Average duration
23 minutes
Episodes
6
Years Active
2024 - 2025
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Episode 6: RELATIONSHIPS AS A MIRROR: A PATHWAY TO HEALING AND PERSONAL GROWTH with Julia Shay

Episode 6: RELATIONSHIPS AS A MIRROR: A PATHWAY TO HEALING AND PERSONAL GROWTH with Julia Shay

ABOUT JULIA: Counsellor and Social Worker — Speaker Julia is an accredited social worker with over 15 years of experience, having worked in diverse settings such as non-profit organizations and Emplo…
01:03:43  |   Wed 21 May 2025
Episode 5: What issues aren't suitable for couples counselling?

Episode 5: What issues aren't suitable for couples counselling?

Today I want to discuss a very important topic - the kinds of issues that are not suitable for couples counselling.. The reason I want to cover this is because I feel like there is a bit of misunders…
00:14:59  |   Wed 31 Jul 2024
Episode 4: Why do avoidant people withdraw in relationships?

Episode 4: Why do avoidant people withdraw in relationships?

So where does the tendency to withdraw come from? It is different for everyone but it usually goes back to childhood and the relationship with primary caregivers- mum, dad or whoever raised us. S…
00:13:20  |   Thu 25 Jul 2024
Episode 3: Situationships, casual sex and attachment

Episode 3: Situationships, casual sex and attachment

I think it's fairly safe to assume that most people are aware of the term casual sex and what it entails or it's closely related cousin, friends with benefits. However, the situationship is a relat…
00:12:05  |   Wed 10 Jul 2024
Episode 2: Why do anxious and avoidant people attract?

Episode 2: Why do anxious and avoidant people attract?

One of the biggest underlying reasons that couples come to counselling is because one partner has anxious attachment and the other has avoidant attachment which results in what is called a distancer/…
00:13:06  |   Wed 03 Jul 2024
Episode 1: What are the most common issues in couples therapy?

Episode 1: What are the most common issues in couples therapy?

Welcome to 'Just Listen to Me!' The Show that is all about relationships. I'm Julia Shay a couples counsellor practising here in Australia. I am often asked what are the main issues couples presen…
00:21:24  |   Wed 26 Jun 2024
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