Lifestyle Design, Life's Choices, Goals....

I'm on a list from earlytorise.com and I often like their postings/messages. Good stuff from Early to Rise's Craig Ballantyne !!

This is an example right from Early To Rise's email - a great message and one that at least I identify with, I hope it helps you too. The bottom of the message is from another contributor and website called JasonLeister.com

FROM earlytorise.com - May 17, 2012..........

"Get Started Early

I was lucky. Early in my teenage years I knew what I wanted my life to look like, and I went about designing it from that day. If you didn't get started early on lifestyle design, the best you can do is start now. Today, Jason Leister shows you how.

Craig Ballantyne

You can't change your genetics, but you can change your attitude, your persistence, your environment, the people you listen to and hang around with, and the things you do. You can change, so if you want to, just get started.

Lifestyle Design With Six Kids

By Jason Leister
When I first read Tim Ferriss' book, The 4-Hour Workweek, I was pretty sucked in. Who wouldn't want to work for only 4 hours a week?

As it turns out, I wouldn't.

I derive a lot of meaning and pleasure from working hard. For me, creating something and sharing it with others makes me feel good. It is what I like to do.

But that's just me. And that's the point.

Designing your life means designing your life. Comments, questions and criticisms from others, while helpful, are largely irrelevant. The only thing that matters is how you want your life to go.

First, Step Inside Your Own Faraday Cage

In 1836, an English scientist, Michael Faraday, designed a unique device able to shield its contents from electromagnetic radiation. The device was aptly named, a Faraday Cage. Objects inside the cage were effectively cut-off from outside energetic interference, which proved very helpful in certain experiments.

If designing your life is an important priority for you, then the first step is to make sure that your goals, priorities and ideals for that life are in fact yours.

I started out life playing defense. That means I spent most of my time living up to other's expectations of me.

Living like that doesn't leave a lot of room for "lifestyle design" because frankly, you outsource that function to someone else... to everyone else actually.

Given my history, one of my (many) weaknesses is that I sometimes fall back into "dealing with what life dishes me" instead of actively creating my future.

This is irresponsible.

I know that sounds weak, but it's the truth. I reveal things like this in public forums because it provides instant accountability for me. By telling a few hundred thousand people, I'm inspired to become a better version of myself.

Weird, but it works for me.

If you're going to go to the trouble of designing your life the way you want it, then make sure you are clear about what you actually want.

This means cutting yourself off from the influence of what others might think about your decisions.

You have squash your need to "keep up with the Joneses" or anyone else, for that matter.

Why?

Well, the biggest reason is that there's a good chance...

The Joneses Are Idiots

The average person just isn't interested in living life at the level of excellence you probably are. So to look to them for anything (except for a good reminder of what not to do) is not helpful.

And so we go in search of people who do exhibit various levels of mastery in their lives. And that's when things can get even worse.

It's easy to look around at the lives of others and just accept that what they want for their life has anything to do with what you should want for yours.

It's easy to be enamored by someone's dedication to an ideal and think that you should exhibit that kind of dedication.

It's easy to be impressed by the material wealth of someone and think you should have that too.

This is living life from (continued)