In their first ten months of fatherhood, Brian and Ty have fielded many questions and comments from kind individuals hoping to connect with their experience - and sometimes, these comments are assuming and harmful. How does the world view gay dads - both consciously and unconsciously? Brian and Ty talk about what it's been like to field questions, be in the world with their new baby, and give some practical suggestions for how to be in the conversation of family planning with friends and acquaintances.