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In The Arena with Avoidant Attachment: Part 2 of 2

Author
Gemma Matin
Published
Tue 17 Jun 2025
Episode Link
https://rss.com/podcasts/its-gemma-speaking/2066866

Choosing Peace Over Potential and Walking Away

I’m diving deeper into avoidant attachment dynamics, and the power of choosing yourself in the process. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a confusing push/pull connection, or valuing them above you, this episode is for you.

You'll learn:

  • How attachment styles are formed and how they can shift through conscious learning and subconscious healing.
  • Why avoidant partners aren't “bad” — and how their behaviour often reflects unhealed trauma.
  • What it really means to walk away when someone isn’t emotionally available — and how to reclaim your self-worth.
  • The mindset shift I needed to walk away from an avoidant partner.
  • Why choosing peace isn’t about giving up — it’s breaking a generational pattern of emotional unavailability.This episode is a must-listen if you’re:
  • Navigating heartbreak from an anxious-avoidant dynamic 🧲
  • Working to become more secure in your attachment ❤️
  • Committed to showing up as a safe space for yourself and your future relationships 🕊️

This is about becoming the heroine in your own story—especially when it hurts—and creating a new emotional legacy for yourself and for your own children.

👑 You’re holding the family heirloom, my love.

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