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Attachment or Alignment. What’s Motivating Your Dating Choices?

Author
Gemma Matin
Published
Thu 29 May 2025
Episode Link
https://rss.com/podcasts/its-gemma-speaking/2033515

We explore the life changing magic of simply honouring “what feels good” for you —not just what feels familiar or easy. Through the lens of dating, we unpack how to stop outsourcing your value and start leading with aligned decisions, even when it feels uncomfortable.

In this episode, you’ll hear how to:

  • Do “what feels good” looks like when you’re dating someone new.
  • Tell the difference between comfort based on familiarity vs. choices rooted in alignment with your relationship vision.
  • Why we abandon ourselves in dating (and how to start choosing yourself without guilt or shame).
  • Recognize if you’re outsourcing your worth in a relationship—and what it looks like to take your power back.
  • How to be in a relationship and still choose yourself—and actually live that in practice.

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