In Need of A Tension
Hosted by Jairus Matthew Copeland, In Need of A Tension is a safe space that facilitates and guides conversations surrounding life, relationships and the tensions that can arise. The foundation of each conversation relies upon the beliefs that more is available, better is attainable and there is always perspective to gain.
- Update frequency
- every 6 days
- Average duration
- 46 minutes
- Episodes
- 20
- Years Active
- 2025
Inconvenience v.s. Pain // A Message From The Archives
In this heartfelt New Year’s message, Jairus reflects on the challenges and blessings of 2024 while encouraging listeners to step into 2025 with clarity and faith. He shares personal stories—navigati…
Dismantling the Church Creative // Creativity Coaching
In this episode, Jairus Matthew Copeland unpacks what it really means to be a “church creative.” Drawing from his own journey in ministry and creative leadership, Jairus challenges us to rethink the …
Surrender vs. Delivery // Finding Peace Beyond Control
In this episode Jairus Matthew Copeland unpacks the powerful distinction between delivery and surrender. While delivery asks to be pulled out of a difficult situation, surrender invites us to release…
Being a Man in 2025 // 4 Traits of a Man in 2025
This week, Jairus Matthew Copeland reflects on what it means to be a modern man in 2025, drawing on his upbringing, faith, and personal experiences. He outlines four key traits: cultivating spiritual…
Green Roof // Honoring While Innovating
This week, Jairus sits down with consultant and former youth pastor Miche Trena to talk about his journey from ministry to nearly two decades of helping churches and nonprofits grow. They explore why…
Fostering Connection // Building Bonds In a Disconnected World
In this engaging conversation, Jairus Copeland talks with Craig Dockery, who shares his journey of personal growth, creativity, and the importance of community. Craig reflects on his early feelings o…
Remember the Titans // How We’ve Overcome
In this episode, Jairus Matthew Copeland discusses the importance of remembering and reflecting on the challenges (Titans) we face in life. He emphasizes the need to learn from these experiences with…
Oh No, I Hope I Don't Fall // Deconstructing Inner Vows
In this episode, Jairus Matthew Copeland explores the concept of inner vows—decisions we make to protect ourselves from pain that ultimately limit our growth and freedom. Through personal anecdotes a…
Grateful or Hateful // Navigating the Pressure of Life
In this episode, Jairus Matthew Copeland explores the transformative power of storytelling through film and personal experiences. He reflects on the pressures and responsibilities that come with purs…
Molding What You See in The Mirror // How to Become Your Best Self
In this episode, Jairus Copeland delves into his journey of personal growth and self-reflection, exploring the desire for fatherhood and the challenges of becoming the person he aspires to be. The co…
The Art of Intersection // The Everyday Tensions of Living a Full Life
In this episode, Jairus Matthew Copeland hears from Rebecca Shakespeare Armstrong about the intersections of creativity, motherhood, and personal growth. They discuss the influence of 80s and 90s cul…
Sappy Medium w/ JB Copeland // The Mystery of Fulfillment
In this episode, Jairus Copeland talks with JB Copeland about his journey through content creation, personal challenges, and the impact of faith on his life. They explore the balance of tension in li…
The Value of Participation // Navigating Leadership Tension
In this episode, Jairus Copeland and Kirk Marshall explore the dynamics of leadership, the importance of curiosity and collaboration, and the role of trust in relationships. They reflect on personal …
5 Keys to Conflict Conversations // Connection through Conflict
In this episode, Jairus Copeland walks listeners through the five essential steps to navigating conflict with clarity, compassion, and courage. Sparked by a recent conversation with his sister-in-law…
The Alternative to Absolutes // Certainty v.s. Curiosity
This week, Jairus Copeland explores the concept of absolutes and how certainty can impact relationships and personal growth. He contrasts the need for certainty with the value of curiosity, emphasizi…
The Value of Alignment // Marriage, Communication & It’s Challenges
This week, Jairus Copeland and his wife, Sarah Copeland, explore the complexities of their relationship, focusing on themes of tension, vulnerability, and personal growth. They discuss how their back…
The Duality of Reality // The Power of Creativity
This week, host Jairus Copeland and filmmaker and comedian David explore the intersections of art, creativity, and personal growth. They discuss David's journey from Zimbabwe to the U.S., the importa…
The Power of Resilience // How to Overcome Trauma
In this conversation, Jairus Copeland and his sister Micaiah discuss the complexities of mental health, resilience, and trauma. They explore the importance of creating a safe space for vulnerability,…
Tension in Relationships // Auditing Your Energy
In this episode, Jairus Copeland explores the dynamics of energy in relationships, categorizing individuals as energy eaters, seekers, or breathers. The conversation delves into how these roles affec…
Embracing Authenticity // Living a Life of Tension
In this episode, host Jairus Copeland explores the themes of intentions, tension, and personal growth. He reflects on his journey of self-discovery, the importance of authenticity, and the role of fa…