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#162. Relationship Intelligence, and Why You Must Trust Your Self, with Railey Molinario

Author
Wendy Pitts Reeves
Published
Tue 09 Sep 2025
Episode Link
https://www.wendypittsreeves.com/blog/162

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Are you a relationship expert in one way or another?

Feel like that’s something you have a pretty good handle on?

As healers - especially therapists - we often consider ourselves experts on what it takes to develop healthy relationships - but how often do you think about the relationship you have with yourself? 

The truth is, many of us struggle with the very foundation of all healthy connections: trust. And especially: with trusting ourselves.

Today I'm talking with Human Connection expert Railey Molinario, who is passionate about the concept of "Relationship Intelligence™".  She says there is a missing component we can all use to truly develop the life we dream of having - and it starts with learning to listen to ourselves.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • Why the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our life (and how to make sure yours are thriving).
  • The one skill we all master as healers, but often lack in our own lives - and what happens when we start to practice it with ourselves. (Oooh - that’s interesting!)
  • Why brainstorming is one of the most valuable skills you have – and how to use it to change your life.
  • A simple hack to shift yourself out of the “I’ll be happy when …” mindset.

This conversation is packed with a ton of truth bombs, y'all, but here's what I really want you to hear…

You are worth the life of your dreams. 

You are worth following through on the promises you make to yourself. You are worth creating boundaries that honour your values – especially as someone whose work is helping others.

So give this one a listen. And then maybe grab a journal and ask yourself the best question ever: If you could wake up tomorrow and be anywhere, doing anything – what would your life look like?

Because if it’s in your heart, it’s meant for you.  Trust me.

But more than anything, trust yourself. 

(Because you really can make it happen.)

Here’s to the power of your dreams,

~Wendy

P.S. Got a dream you can’t imagine coming true?? Or maybe, a dream you CAN imagine, but just don’t know where to start in order to get there? I’d love to hear about it. Send me an email at [email protected], and I’ll answer you personally!

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TODAY’S GUEST:  RAILEY MOLINARIO  

Railey Molinario, founder of RI (Relationship Intelligence™), is an international speaker empowering therapists, leaders, and changemakers to build thriving relationships, both personally and professionally. Abandoned at birth and raised in a traumatic home, Railey left at 16 and rebuilt her life through emotional mastery and strategic connection. 

Today, she teaches RI (Relationship Intelligence™), a proven method to create aligned, intentional relationships that fuel healing, leadership, and legacy. 

Through her coaching, corporate work, and global movement, Railey is helping therapists and entrepreneurs elevate their impact by mastering the one skill that changes everything: human connection.

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THIS WEEK’S JOURNAL PROMPT:  

If you could wake up tomorrow and be anywhere, doing anything – what would your life look like?

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Wendy Pitts Reeves, LCSW
Host, Ideal Practice
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www.WendyPittsReeves.com
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