We continue the deep dive into Kiran’s transformative teaching: Red Love vs Blue Love.
In Part 1, we uncovered how much of what we call love is actually attachment—clingy romance, twin flame myths, and even parenting roles that are really about ownership and identity. In contrast, this second part takes us deeper into what true intimacy looks like beyond attachment.
In Part 2, we take the conversation deeper with Kiran, Leela, and Cami. Together, they illuminate the difference between Red Love and Blue Love—and how shifting from one to the other transforms every relationship in your life.
🔴 Red Love – why it’s so addictive, because cultural myths around romance and family keep us chasing fulfillment. As a result, we often fall into the hidden suffering that comes with attachment.
🔵 Blue Love – the living practice of intimacy without clinging. Instead of chasing fulfillment, unconditional love flows naturally when we release filters, roles, and old stories.
Through raw conversations and real-life examples, you’ll discover the following insights. For example:
✨ Why Red Love feels irresistible (and why it never satisfies)
✨ How myths of “perfect partner” and “happy family” feed suffering
✨ What true alignment in relationship actually looks like
✨ Discover ways to practice daily intimacy without attachment
✨ Stories of parenting, family, and partnership transformed through Blue Love
If you’ve ever longed for relationships that feel free, intimate, and deeply alive, this episode offers a practical non-dual map to living as love itself. Therefore, it’s a valuable guide for anyone seeking transformation in love and intimacy.
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00:00 – Intro: Picking up from Part 1 of Red Love, Blue Love
02:15 – Why Red Love feels so addictive
06:30 – Exploring the filters that block intimacy
10:45 – Family myths & chasing connection through roles
15:22 – Plot twist: The unconditional love you crave is YOU
18:40 – Blue Love as actual intimacy: freedom + joy
23:05 – How attachments distort parenting & partnerships
29:12 – A real-life example: unpacking “family time” attachments
36:40 – The practice of living Blue Love daily
41:55 – Personal stories on attachments (birthdays, expectations, roles)
48:30 – The ongoing practice: noticing where we hook into Red Love
53:00 – Final reflections: relationships as mirrors of unconditional love
55:00 – Links + last call for fall classes
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