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A Non-Dual Secret To Deeper Connection And True Love-Ep 111

Author
Kiran Trace
Published
Thu 28 Aug 2025
Episode Link
https://kirantrace.com/blog/a-non-dual-secret-to-deeper-connection-and-true-love-ep-111/

We all long for love—but what if much of what we call love is actually attachment?


What if the “I can’t live without you” kind of passion, the clingy parenting, or the twin flame obsession we’ve been taught to see as the highest form of love… is really a form of suffering disguised as devotion?


In this episode, Kiran, Leela, and Cami unpack one of Kiran’s most transformative teachings: Red Love vs Blue Love.


🔴 Red Love: the clingy, attached, agenda-driven kind of love we’ve been taught to celebrate—where romance, parenting, or even friendship becomes about ownership, exclusivity, and identity.


🔵 Blue Love: a radically different way of loving—cool, spacious, free, and without agenda. This non-attached love opens us to Source, to truth, and to the ability to meet others as they are without carrying them or needing them to define us. Through stories, examples, and lived experience, we explore:


✨ Why we confuse attachment for real love


✨ The hidden suffering inside exclusivity & twin flame myths


✨ The difference between “Hollywood romance” and Source love


✨ How Blue Love brings more compassion, intimacy, and freedom into parenting, friendships, and romantic partnerships


✨ What it feels like to live in a field of love that doesn’t begin or end with another person


This is Part 1 of the Red Love/Blue Love teaching. Next week, in Part 2, we’ll go even deeper into what it means to embody true love that is unconditional, ever-present, and limitless.


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Show Notes:


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Timestamps


00:00 – Intro: Why talk about love & attachment


02:10 – Red Love vs Blue Love explained


06:45 – Kiran’s teaching origin story (Ilsa & the “cool” kind of love)


12:30 – What makes attached love (Red Love) toxic


18:20 – Why Blue Love feels so different from Hollywood romance


23:45 – Leela’s personal story: Red Love, loss, and choosing God


31:15 – Exclusive vs inclusive love (and the twin flame trap) 38:20 – The shift into unconditional Source love 43:00 – How Blue Love transforms parenting & relationships


47:50 – Healthy detachment: caring without carrying


50:15 – Closing reflections + Fall class registration


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