A Non-Dual Secret To Deeper Connection And True Love-Ep 111

Author: Kiran Trace
Published: Thu 28 Aug 2025
Episode Link: https://kirantrace.com/blog/a-non-dual-secret-to-deeper-connection-and-true-love-ep-111/

We all long for love—but what if much of what we call love is actually attachment?

What if the “I can’t live without you” kind of passion, the clingy parenting, or the twin flame obsession we’ve been taught to see as the highest form of love… is really a form of suffering disguised as devotion?

In this episode, Kiran, Leela, and Cami unpack one of Kiran’s most transformative teachings: Red Love vs Blue Love.

Red Love: the clingy, attached, agenda-driven kind of love we’ve been taught to celebrate—where romance, parenting, or even friendship becomes about ownership, exclusivity, and identity.

Blue Love: a radically different way of loving—cool, spacious, free, and without agenda. This non-attached love opens us to Source, to truth, and to the ability to meet others as they are without carrying them or needing them to define us. Through stories, examples, and lived experience, we explore:

Why we confuse attachment for real love

The hidden suffering inside exclusivity & twin flame myths

The difference between “Hollywood romance” and Source love

How Blue Love brings more compassion, intimacy, and freedom into parenting, friendships, and romantic partnerships

What it feels like to live in a field of love that doesn’t begin or end with another person

This is Part 1 of the Red Love/Blue Love teaching. Next week, in Part 2, we’ll go even deeper into what it means to embody true love that is unconditional, ever-present, and limitless.

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Show Notes:

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