The Alligator Mindset: Adapting, Overcoming, and Succeeding as a Woman Entrepreneur

Have you ever felt the sting of success turning friends into critics? Wondered why, as you climb higher, the support sometimes fades and the whispers grow louder? What does it really take to thrive as a working mom and business owner in a world that often expects you to choose?

In this powerful episode, we welcome back Marissa Hughes, founder of Mavie Med Spa, one of Utah’s most sought-after med spas. Marissa’s journey from humble beginnings to industry leader is inspiring, but today she opens up about the challenges that come with growth: jealousy, judgment, and even sabotage from those closest to her. With honesty and vulnerability, Marissa shares the realities of navigating success, setbacks, and the unique pressures faced by women in business.

Key Takeaways:

• The hidden costs of success: how growth can shift relationships and invite unexpected criticism.
• The psychology behind “mean girls” and why women sometimes struggle to support each other.
• How Marissa handled personal and professional attacks, and the resilience she built in the process.
• The importance of adaptability and perseverance in business and life (“be the alligator!”).
• Balancing motherhood, ambition, and self-judgment, why it’s okay to love your work and your family.
• Practical tips for overcoming hyper-independence and learning to trust and accept support.
• The value of mentorship and why every entrepreneur needs a trusted guide.
• Why forgiveness and grace are essential for moving forward, even when others try to bring you down.

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