288 | Poly Pro & Lifestyle Dominatrix: Miss Butter on Woo

BDSM, female Domination and non-monogamy—Miss Butter shares her evolution from Lifestyle Dominant lover to ProDomme while navigating family life.

00:00 Discovering the joys of sex and how she became a virgin again

06:46 Dissolving her own shame parenting a teenage daughter

10:54 Selective penetration and boundaries for different partners

15:03 New partner negotiations and playing safely with toys

22:22 How she loves making client’s dreams come true

24:07 A life-changing strip club make-out session

28:47 What it’s like to be a Domme married to a Dom in a Female-Led Relationship (FLR)

34:55 Finding fellow lifestyle FemmeDommes and creating safety for male submissives

39:44 Priorities in polyamory, community, and playing without her husband

48:40 Studying BDSM formally and expanding play into work as a ProDomme

54:10 Building Lifestyle relationships with clients

58:26 Creating physical fantasy spaces, meeting desires in surprising ways, and intentional healing

1:05:35 Aftercare, favorite toys, and synchronized heartbeats

1:09:36 Parenting while kinky and the positive effect of openness to questions

1:16:30 Coming out as a ProDomme to her kids

1:22:21 How she aspires to create community and spread ethical Dominance

1:24:46 Staying curious and how to find your “real true Domme”

📈 STATS | 50 demisexual Jewish woman, she/her pronouns, ENM, married in a relationship of 30 years, Los Angeles based, into: Dominance, BDSM, group play, lifestyle Domination
 

🔗 MISS BUTTER LINKS | supersweetbutter.com

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